Preparing Kids To Face Death
Dear Goldie, My husband is dying of cancer. How do I tell our young children about death? We are Christians More… Continue Reading
Author: Danny Cheah
Anxious Over Family Members
Dear Goldie, I’m very concerned about my old mother who’s in her 80’s and is still not a christian. She is in frail health and I’m afraid she may go anytime. I’ve tried to talk to her about Jesus and she has gone to church several times, More… Continue Reading
Desperate: Fiery Trial
Dear Goldie, I am going through a most severe and stressful case of being wrongly accused by the authorities of certain things. I am innocent but the case is complicated and may end up in court. i am going through hell and their harassment is sapping my energy, not knowing how this case will turn out. My Life is on Hold, my sanity is at stake. More… Continue Reading
Struggling
Dear Goldie, I am devastated. I have been serving as a volunteer in this committee for umpteen years, and suddenly they voted me out. The takeover was pre-planned and deliberate, and I don’t understand their motive for it. More… Continue Reading
Shaken
Dear Goldie, In these two months, six people in strategic positions from my organisation have resigned – all of them in major, front-line posts. The most senior manager has been with me for 17 years. Only recently, she told me she will never leave me. Then tearfully handed me a resignation letter saying that her health is not holding up. Others are dropping out for their own reasons – nothing to do with each other. It seems the pillars holding us up are shaking and about to collapse. More… Continue Reading
Upset
Dear Goldie, I am a cell leader in my church. One day my old friend came and shared with me the difficulties he was having with his wife. Because I know them both, I had a few counselling sessions with them. Later I found out that their cell leader (in our church) was very unhappy, complaining to some people that I had usurped his leadership. More… Continue Reading
Angry and Resentful
Dear Goldie, I find that I have so much anger and resentment against a church member who has treated me badly. I can’t even pronounce his name, it upsets me that much. I have helped him countless times, going out of my way at great inconvenience to myself. But on one occasion, I couldn’t drop everything to help him when he called me. Since then he has been telling everybody how I refused to help. My reputation is ruined and I feel betrayed. I dont feel like helping anyone anymore. How can I get out of this terrible feeling? More… Continue Reading
Overwhelmed and knocked out
Dear Goldie, I am going through so many difficulties and problems. I may be retrenched. My application for a loan has been rejected, my bag was snatched, my husband needs an operation; I am just overwhelmed. More… Continue Reading
Hopeless & Helpless
Dear Goldie, I am a leader in my church and I am worried about the possibility of retrenchment. I have not been my usual self. I get impatient, frustrated and angry easily. It’s affecting my wife and children. More… Continue Reading
