Dear Goldie, I am a cell leader in my church. One day my old friend came and shared with me the difficulties he was having with his wife. Because I know them both, I had a few counselling sessions with them. Later I found out that their cell leader (in our church) was very unhappy, complaining to some people that I had usurped his leadership. More… Continue Reading
Dear Goldie, I find that I have so much anger and resentment against a church member who has treated me badly. I can’t even pronounce his name, it upsets me that much. I have helped him countless times, going out of my way at great inconvenience to myself. But on one occasion, I couldn’t drop everything to help him when he called me. Since then he has been telling everybody how I refused to help. My reputation is ruined and I feel betrayed. I dont feel like helping anyone anymore. How can I get out of this terrible feeling? More… Continue Reading
Dear Goldie, I am going through so many difficulties and problems. I may be retrenched. My application for a loan has been rejected, my bag was snatched, my husband needs an operation; I am just overwhelmed. More… Continue Reading
Dear Goldie, I am a leader in my church and I am worried about the possibility of retrenchment. I have not been my usual self. I get impatient, frustrated and angry easily. It’s affecting my wife and children. More… Continue Reading
